I came across this article today and I couldn't believe the headline. A woman died after becoming trapped in the chimney or her ex-lover. She had gone round to see him after their relationship had come to an end. He had refused to let her in and had snuck out of the house to avoid confrontation with her. Which gives the impression that their relationship was very troubled and the man feared this woman in some way. Why else would he feel the need to sneak out of the 'back door' to get away from her? How sad. How ridiculous for someone to lose their life in this way. I couldn't help thinking about the way modern women have been conned into believing we have to run after men to get them and continue running after them anxiously trying to control them to keep them. The feminist movement has told women they no
longer have to be feminine, in fact to be feminine is a bad thing! They have seduced women into believing they can have it all, and they can be just as aggressive as men. Well a woman can try to be just that, but she will not be attractive and desirable to men. Not real men anyway. The only men that are attracted to aggressive, masculinized, assertive women who chase after the man are the wrong kind of men! And are they really real men at all? I'll leave that for you to contemplate. I believe that when God created the human race he intended that the man be the hunter - the breadwinner as it were. It is men who are supposed to be the ones hunting for or looking for a wife or helper, not the other way round! Women should not be hunting men, and if a relationship is deemed to be over, ladies should not be hunting the man down in order to force the relationship back on track. I know it is painful when any relationship comes to an end, but I believe if women would just do things according to God's 'Divine blue-print', according to God's order then things would not be quite as hectic and relationships with the opposite sex would stand more of a chance of succeeding. If a relationship has come to an end and the man is clearly not interested, a woman needs to just humbly accept that. Now I know there are instances where relationships have been mended through prayer. God is able to heal relationships that are broken! I am not talking about godly women here I am talking about unbelievers who do not have a relationship with Christ. Of course, if a godly woman has her husband decide he no longer wants to be married to her (God forbid!) in some fit of madness, of course she must not remain passive. But she should place the whole situation in God's hands, He knows everything that is going on in the man's heart and He is able to speak to the man and bring him back to his senses through the woman's prayers. She can fully expect that relationship to be mended and her husband's heart to return to her. No godly woman should just accept it if her man becomes cold towards her and seeks a divorce because what God has joined together let no man put assunder. That is a completely different situation. Here I am talking about non-Christians. Any woman who tries to force a man to continue to have a relationship with her when he clearly is not interested becomes very intimidating and the ultimate 'bunny boiler'. And these traits are not attractive to anyone, especially men. Women should not allow themselves to lose their dignity and self-respect over a man. It is not worth it. Given time, I believe the right man will come for the woman who's heart is right with God and who places her whole trust in Him. But most women are not trusting God for their husband and are just ruling their own lives, based on their own emotions and ungodly, selfish desires. And that is a recipe for disaster. A woman who hunts down a man or harrasses him when a relationshop is over becomes doubly unnattractive to him. If he found her unnattractive before he will do so even more when these selfish traits are exposed in her. These traits are un-feminine, ugly and unlady-like. I think it is so sad that this woman lost her life in this way. How many women today have lost their femininity (if they had any femininity in the first place) through allowing themselves to become the masculine one and the controlling one in their relationships? And how many women have lost their dignity and self-respect (if they had any in the first place) by refusing to let go and allowing themselves to become combatant, hunter-like, aggressive and intimidating when a relationship has gone sour and come to an end? Sadly this woman lost more than her dignity, she lost her life.
Anyway, here's the article.
A woman's decomposing body has been found wedged inside the chimney of her lover's home after she tried to sneak into his house. Skip related content
Related photos / videos Woman Dies While Stuck In Lover's Chimney Enlarge photo Dr Jacquelyn Kotarac, 49, scaled a ladder to the roof, removed the chimney cap and slid down the flue of the property in Bakersfield, California.
The woman, who had an "on-again, off again" relationship with the man, had gone to the house on Wednesday last week, police said.
But the man refused to let her in and escaped unnoticed from the house "to avoid a confrontation", police added.
Dr Kotarac is believed to have been stuck in the chimney for three days.
Her body was discovered by a house-sitter who noticed "an odour and fluids" coming from the fireplace, police said.
The house-sitter and her son found the woman's body wedged about two feet above the top of the interior fireplace opening.
Firefighters spent five hours dismantling the chimney and flue from the outside of the property to extract the body.
The man's identity has been revealed in media reports as William Moodie, 58, the owner of a petroleum engineering company.
"She made an unbelievable error in judgement and nobody understands why, and unfortunately she's passed away," Mr Moodie told the Associated Press.
"She had her issues, she had her demons, but I never lost my respect for her."
He would not comment on the circumstances that led to her death but described her as a "superb internist who often provided service and medication free of charge to her patients".
Dr Kotarac ran a medical practice seeing as many as 200 patients a week, reports said.
Her office staff reported her missing when she failed to turn up to work.
Bakersfield coroner's office said Dr Kotarac died of asphyxiation and concluded the death was an accident.
longer have to be feminine, in fact to be feminine is a bad thing! They have seduced women into believing they can have it all, and they can be just as aggressive as men. Well a woman can try to be just that, but she will not be attractive and desirable to men. Not real men anyway. The only men that are attracted to aggressive, masculinized, assertive women who chase after the man are the wrong kind of men! And are they really real men at all? I'll leave that for you to contemplate. I believe that when God created the human race he intended that the man be the hunter - the breadwinner as it were. It is men who are supposed to be the ones hunting for or looking for a wife or helper, not the other way round! Women should not be hunting men, and if a relationship is deemed to be over, ladies should not be hunting the man down in order to force the relationship back on track. I know it is painful when any relationship comes to an end, but I believe if women would just do things according to God's 'Divine blue-print', according to God's order then things would not be quite as hectic and relationships with the opposite sex would stand more of a chance of succeeding. If a relationship has come to an end and the man is clearly not interested, a woman needs to just humbly accept that. Now I know there are instances where relationships have been mended through prayer. God is able to heal relationships that are broken! I am not talking about godly women here I am talking about unbelievers who do not have a relationship with Christ. Of course, if a godly woman has her husband decide he no longer wants to be married to her (God forbid!) in some fit of madness, of course she must not remain passive. But she should place the whole situation in God's hands, He knows everything that is going on in the man's heart and He is able to speak to the man and bring him back to his senses through the woman's prayers. She can fully expect that relationship to be mended and her husband's heart to return to her. No godly woman should just accept it if her man becomes cold towards her and seeks a divorce because what God has joined together let no man put assunder. That is a completely different situation. Here I am talking about non-Christians. Any woman who tries to force a man to continue to have a relationship with her when he clearly is not interested becomes very intimidating and the ultimate 'bunny boiler'. And these traits are not attractive to anyone, especially men. Women should not allow themselves to lose their dignity and self-respect over a man. It is not worth it. Given time, I believe the right man will come for the woman who's heart is right with God and who places her whole trust in Him. But most women are not trusting God for their husband and are just ruling their own lives, based on their own emotions and ungodly, selfish desires. And that is a recipe for disaster. A woman who hunts down a man or harrasses him when a relationshop is over becomes doubly unnattractive to him. If he found her unnattractive before he will do so even more when these selfish traits are exposed in her. These traits are un-feminine, ugly and unlady-like. I think it is so sad that this woman lost her life in this way. How many women today have lost their femininity (if they had any femininity in the first place) through allowing themselves to become the masculine one and the controlling one in their relationships? And how many women have lost their dignity and self-respect (if they had any in the first place) by refusing to let go and allowing themselves to become combatant, hunter-like, aggressive and intimidating when a relationship has gone sour and come to an end? Sadly this woman lost more than her dignity, she lost her life.
Anyway, here's the article.
A woman's decomposing body has been found wedged inside the chimney of her lover's home after she tried to sneak into his house. Skip related content
Related photos / videos Woman Dies While Stuck In Lover's Chimney Enlarge photo Dr Jacquelyn Kotarac, 49, scaled a ladder to the roof, removed the chimney cap and slid down the flue of the property in Bakersfield, California.
The woman, who had an "on-again, off again" relationship with the man, had gone to the house on Wednesday last week, police said.
But the man refused to let her in and escaped unnoticed from the house "to avoid a confrontation", police added.
Dr Kotarac is believed to have been stuck in the chimney for three days.
Her body was discovered by a house-sitter who noticed "an odour and fluids" coming from the fireplace, police said.
The house-sitter and her son found the woman's body wedged about two feet above the top of the interior fireplace opening.
Firefighters spent five hours dismantling the chimney and flue from the outside of the property to extract the body.
The man's identity has been revealed in media reports as William Moodie, 58, the owner of a petroleum engineering company.
"She made an unbelievable error in judgement and nobody understands why, and unfortunately she's passed away," Mr Moodie told the Associated Press.
"She had her issues, she had her demons, but I never lost my respect for her."
He would not comment on the circumstances that led to her death but described her as a "superb internist who often provided service and medication free of charge to her patients".
Dr Kotarac ran a medical practice seeing as many as 200 patients a week, reports said.
Her office staff reported her missing when she failed to turn up to work.
Bakersfield coroner's office said Dr Kotarac died of asphyxiation and concluded the death was an accident.
